I can sense the economist's brainstorming all the way here. Not a one knows how to enjoy life. Please continue to respect all commenters and create constructive debates. I had hoped that I would have gotten a little more response out of the others, especially ones who were mutual "meet me" that POF has.
Your safety is of paramount importance. There's also Guided Communication, a four-step program of communication with your matches. Then, I have had a couple go a few sentences longer, but almost all have ended. They are not as caliber as I would like.
Instead of paying for a monthly membership, you have to buy tokens to do much of anything.