The ugly I feel the same way about the guys looking at my profile. Maybe handsome guys should have many women and many Com want to use and ugly guys should go to war and die? Injecting an orgasm into abusive acts doesn't make it healthy or normal.
I really based my selection off of the profiles the guy's wrote. The fact is after all this effort and not having any glimpse of success I am also thinking that maybe I will not have kids or I will try to relocate on another continenttry to be rich and have fun with my good friends and establish a charity to help people in need also because I earn more money than I need for a single person.
I see a time where many will become burnt out on online dating and actually want to try reverting back to traditional means of trying to forge something organic.
Personally, I think there is so much more to be gained from talking with someone face to face — you are able to read their body language and listen to intonation in their voice, which are much better indicators than online messages or profiles.
But how do you quantify chemistry that on a dating site? I went to concerts of my favorite artists. Also learn to take no for an answer. But no the opposite.